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Ross shut down the red carpet this evening with a look that was equal parts glamorous and personal: Her sweeping white gown, punctuated with crystal and beads, featured an 18-foot train embroidered with the names of her children and grandchildren

Otherwise, a traditional pair of black leather Oxfords will do

Black is universally chic, photographs cleanly under any lighting, never reads as bridal at a wedding, and works across nearly every type of cocktail event

Its a way of making their special day feel more personalized to them whether theyre super non-traditional or they just love the aesthetic of a black wardrobe